Toke Makinwa in her new vlog has declared that relationship a guy for a 5 years is a total waste of time.
Speaking within the video, Toke who is divorced from her ex-husband, Maje Ayide additionally declared that she’s talking from expertise as she’s additionally being in a long run relationship.
She said that having a long run relationship doesn’t translate to a completely satisfied married life when the couple resolve to tie the knot. She stated;
“I don’t perceive why it’s best to date somebody for greater than two and a half years. That is my take. I really feel like in case you meet somebody, two years is first rate, two and half years is first rate, By three years, its like ‘what again are your trying to find out’.
What didn’t you discover out within the first and second year. I really feel like 5 years is taking the piece and for seven years, you’re completely having a snigger. By 10 years, it’s like ”are you the lord of the rings? I can say this as a result of I’ve been in a long run relationship so I can inform you how I really feel about it. My reply is no as a result of I really feel like typically instances, lengthy courtships don’t translate to a completely satisfied marriage.
Sometimes you discover individuals who date ceaselessly and after they get married, they don’t make it previous that year or two or three years. You discover individuals who get married in a year and a half and 10 years down the road, they’re nonetheless collectively. When folks present you who they’re, it’s important to consider them.
If you end up in a 5 year, seven years 10 years relationship, it is sufficient for you to sit down back and ask the guy what is occurring and the place are we going to?
Why would you need to date somebody for seven years. In that seven years, some folks have gotten collectively, gotten married, had kids, divorced and you’re nonetheless this particular person’s girlfriend. There is nothing that you wouldn’t discover out in three years that you simply need to discover out in eight years.”
On the latest breakup between Cassie and Diddy, Toke stated,
Cassie and Diddy everybody is speaking about. They dated for eleven years. She was a child after they met. This was a woman who got here out, had an superb single, very beautiful younger woman, all of a sudden she began relationship Diddy. Loads of folks requested questions as a result of we’ve all identified Diddy as a guy who has discovered it needed to commit. He has had babymamas, he was engaged for a very lengthy time. He has by no means hidden the truth that he is not the dedication sort of guy. I’ve all the time typically questioned why Cassie stayed that lengthy.
This is a woman that might have performed a lot extra within the last eleven years than touring with Diddy, kissing him on Instalive and simply being his girlfriend. If you’re caught in a relationship with somebody who can empower you and all they might relatively see you as is a hand bag, woman it’s best to stroll away. It semed like she was extra into the connection than her personal self improvement. I don’t kno her and this is not judgement towards her as a result of folks do no matter it is that makes them completely satisfied however I really feel that a lot of folks are likely to date for a lengthy time, hoping that it will both result in marriage and typically it’s typically not the case. And now Diddy is relationship a youthful woman. I nearly cried once I heard it. A 26 year old woman.
Cassie in case you ever watch the video, it’s important to improve. You must go and discover a Russian billionaire. You know the sort in case you don’t prefer to work, they might preserve you in Gucci and Gold for the remainder of your life. Then simply rent Diddy to carry out at your marriage ceremony. Just rent him since you really feel like paying him some cash. That is the perfect revenge you may give to a guy like that.